Monday, September 16, 2013

Cyber Safety For Kids: Online Chat Rooms Versus Online Message Boards

By Anabel Newbraugh


Are you the parent of a teenager or a child who wishes to use the net to meet and get in touch with others who share similar interests? If that's the case, your youngster might be interested in using an online chat room. Although online chat rooms are a nice and simple way to talk, it is important to remember that not all online chat rooms are safe. That is why many parents or guardians often decide on message boards instead, but is it really a safer option?

Even if you aren't an avid internet user yourself, you likely understand that online message boards and online chat rooms are different. Online chat rooms have live communication showing on the screen. Conversations are held at that very moment. Instead, online message boards involve communications which often carry on for days or even weeks. There are also more detailed and themed discussed that occur on message boards, as opposed to chat rooms. Common subjects discussed include homework, parents, pets, music and sports.

As for why some parents have a preference for online message boards, as opposed to online chat rooms, it is because the conversations are not live. Yes, multiple posters may be online at the same time, but it is typical for somebody to post a subject and not get a reply for a few hours or even a day or two. In fact, if your youngster makes a post regarding new pet, someone could ask about their pet or congratulate them when they aren't even online themselves. This gives many parents ease and peace of mind.

Another reason why some parents favor allowing their kids use online message boards, rather than internet chat rooms, is because most message boards are monitored by a trusted adult, who is in some cases paid for their work. This ensures that all offensive posts should be eliminated in a relatively short period of time. Many times, the moderator will likely ban that user from returning.

In keeping with the monitoring of content, is critical to remember that not all message boards are moderated. You will, however, find that a good percentage are. In fact, most message boards for adults also have somebody who looks at the content. With that said, there's no harm in checking. In fact, the same should be done with internet chat rooms.

If a chat room for children or teenagers is only open for a few hours a day, as opposed to 24 hours a day, there is a good chance that a monitor is present. This may offer you some comfort and peace of mind. Also, make sure you look at online chat rooms and message boards for kids that won't let other users to privately contact each other through the use of private messages, also popularly known as a PM.

Whether or not you let your child make use of an online chat room or an online message board, it is best to first check it out for yourself. Visit a chat room. Do not speak to anyone, but observe for about five minutes what sort of content is being discussed. The same ought to be done with internet message boards for kids. Do you think that the material is safe or do any chatters or posters seem too mature for the room or message board?

As for how you can go about finding online message boards and chat rooms that will be safe for your child to go to or to checkout on your own first, you might want to perform a standard internet search. Search with a phrase like "safe online messages boards for children." There are also television networks, like Nick and The N, which are designed for both teens and tweens, that have online message boards. They can allow your son or daughter to chat with others who like the same shows.

As highlighted above, online chat rooms and online message boards can be safe for your child to use, as long as they are aware of the dangers. Also, make sure to checkup on your child from time to time. Make certain they are using a safe message board and chat room and make sure that they aren't interchanging personal information online.




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